tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6609481398401317974.post7689614960251891570..comments2020-08-07T11:28:22.704+02:00Comments on FaVorite FlaVor: No baby drama yet! Whose business is it anyway?Refilwe Thobegahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00224516600622900392noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6609481398401317974.post-19315938519329867302015-09-11T14:40:23.587+02:002015-09-11T14:40:23.587+02:00Its is simple for a man with +- 5 kids to squirt o...Its is simple for a man with +- 5 kids to squirt out such an opinion. First you need to be ready to have these kids and be able to take care of them. A good man\father knows the important dates and what the child went through at school and how many teeth they have lost, even better makes sure the kids are going to school and are well fed. I would like to be the first to advise you to first be ready and to take care of your children<br /><br />Some children mothers and fathers out there did not plan and were not ready yes, but they have given their all to love and protect their kids and not throw them out in the streets. Take care of your own before you make such comments.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6609481398401317974.post-4901493700582648582014-01-10T07:47:26.155+02:002014-01-10T07:47:26.155+02:00I know you are a regular reader of this blog, and ...I know you are a regular reader of this blog, and I value and appreciate your opinion, and many others which I received. <br /><br />My mission is accomplished, this article got people thinking and talking -- a lot. <br />Refilwe Thobegahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00224516600622900392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6609481398401317974.post-87374554195957659702014-01-10T07:46:01.763+02:002014-01-10T07:46:01.763+02:00That's your opinion Mesh. You are probably fee...That's your opinion Mesh. You are probably feeling like that because you have kids. I know men who are in their 30s who dont have kids yet and they are happy to wait until they are ready, and of course until they have the right partner to mother their children. <br /><br />This is their story. I dont expect people to relate or identify with them. I have been getting a lot of comments on my facebook inbox, whatsapp, bbm, and SMSes. People who have kids, especially those who are not married and had them too early are furious. <br />What infuriates them? Is this story about them? <br /><br />Another young girl told me that she does not relate to any of these women because she cant imagine her life without her princess. Thats different. She already has the child. Any parent who had a child, early or not early, would love her or him to bits. But this story is not about them. <br /><br />I know some young adults who have kids and they are wishing that they should have waited a bit. <br /><br />I totally understand these bold women, defying society norms and believes. <br /><br />Isnt it one's choice to have kids (or not) and should they one day feel that not having kids earlier was a mistake -- again, whose business is it anyway?<br /><br />Refilwe Thobegahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00224516600622900392noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6609481398401317974.post-4602076875928565112014-01-07T23:51:16.572+02:002014-01-07T23:51:16.572+02:00I understand, fully respect and admire the courage...I understand, fully respect and admire the courage of this women to stand against the norm and perception concerning having kids, however, and please forgive me, I just cant shake off the feeling that all the reasons given here have within them a sense of guilt and a need for justification for not having kids just as yet. I know I am most likely wrong for having this feeling. Thinking about it all gives me a feeling that somewhere down the line, these sisters will all have a different opinion to what they hold. It could be in a decade or a few from now but I just have a feeling that these reasons they have are not enough and they will sooner or later, feel that way. The good thing though is that, I also have a feeling that they will not regret their stance nevertheless. Meshack ThathaneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com